While honesty (best policy) and confession (good for the soul) get all the positive press, there are times when unburdening yourself is absolutely the wrong thing to do.
The person who confesses may wind up feeling better—because at least now they’re being honest—but the person to whom they’ve confessed can wind up feeling a whole lot worse. If your fiancée is going to inevitably find out, CPOS, better she find out about it from you.
I am so in love and I want to be together again after her trip. Pensive And Insecure Now She wants to get out there and do “things she didn’t get to do in her teens,” i.e., fuck other guys and most likely date other guys.
This isn’t what you want, PAIN, you’ve made that clear to her, but she’s gonna fuck other guys anyway.
I see a therapist, and he advised that, if I’m certain this was a one-time thing, and if I’m convinced that I’m happy with my fiancée, I should keep quiet. Perhaps there’s selfishness at play here, since I’m trying to make myself feel better, but I’m struggling.
Can’t Personally Overlook Selfishness I’m with your therapist, CPOS—and, hey, it’s nice to see “keep your mouth shut about a one-time infidelity” make the jump from our finer advice columns (Dear Prudence, Dear Sugar, Savage Love) to some of our actual therapists.
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You’ve seen your boyfriend’s online chats, UGHERS, so you’re in a better position to judge whether he’s exploring his fantasies without making the world a worse place than it already is for actual black men. Yesterday we met and cried and talked and made love and it felt like she still loves me passionately.
If he’s being a racist piece of shit online, UGHERS, call him out on that. But she also told me she had sex with a stranger a week ago and she is going for one and a half months to Los Angeles on her own. I should hate her for what she did to me, I should tell her to fuck off, but I can’t do it.